Hey, welcome back! I sure missed you Umar. On the Super Bowl, you missed the big vision: the losing team are hero’s because they, just like the winners, have kept the game alive. Okay, American football is not exactly Soccer - the “beautiful game” - but it is a ritual celebrated by much of America that depends on rules and integrity as much as it does strength and effort. (You and your wife might like the TV series Friday Night Lights, about a Texas high school football team and a coach who does his best to teach them values. He is the kind of adult in the room you are talking about.
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